There are so many things in life right now out of my control. My dad passing, changes where I work, my body. And I try to keep it together but today was awful. I’m not going to lie. I was mad, lost control of my emotions and since I left work , i’ve been crying the whole commute home, over a glass of wine, over dinner and so on. Even as I write this.
See, most of my life I’ve had others constantly comparing me either to themselves, how things “used to be” or “this is how it’s always been”. First, I would like to set clear, I despise being compared to others. I am my own person. I have my own thoughts, personality and individuality; it is who I am. Second, we all should learn to accept change. Change provides us with new opportunities and doors we may have never considered opening. Without change, we remain stagnant. When we are stagnant, we become dull. When we become dull, we are without purpose. And when we are without purpose…I don’t know about you, but it scares the hell out of me.
So why the fight? Why must we battle everyday with those who don’t like or can’t accept change? I have yet to understand those who lack inspiration. How can one not be inquisitive about opening new doors or learning more? I am like a sponge, I want to absorb every learning moment I have on this earth! Why? Because people come into your life for a reason, they may or may not stay, and I feel my purpose on this earth is to inspire others to be successful. You never know who you will meet or the impact you may have on that person. Everyone has a reason, a purpose of why they were brought into the situation they are in. Yet we are only successful if there is opportunity, and for there to be opportunity, the door must be cracked open.